Had an argument with GF on Sunday over breakfast.
Was because of something i said ... again. Im as perplex as the guy next door. Being overly sensitive is definitely not a wonderful thing.
A recap. Am attached with GF for the past 8 months. We were former class mates, then we lost contact after high school. Met up again beginning of last year and after a whirlwind courtship, got together in July last year.
The first few months were blissful, learning to understand each other, exchanging opinions on issues and creating intellectual conversation together. My dream girl, someone who i could at least hold a decent conversation with.
Then came the sensitive and stubborn part. And the constact arguments and tantrums.
Things that we say to each other, or sometimes the jokes that we share turns awfully awry.
Then the tantrums start over something small, the phone calls she doesnt pick up, the sms she doesn't reply.
Im sick of it. And tired of it.
This is not how a healthy relationship should progress.
Anyway, im taking a break ..from her.
Its been a day and a half since we last spoke.
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Hmm... What can I say. Maybe you both need some time out from each other. People in love dont just dont pick up calls or not return sms unless something is really wrong inbetween. Like u said, you met before, and nothing happened. You met again, and something happened. I always thought that the first time of any impression is always an indication of something, or nothing. But I could be wrong... or right. In any case, if she starts saying 'Nothing' (familiar subject?), something is definitely brewing. :-)
We didnt hit off the first time because we were younger then, with different goals and ambition.I believe when we grow older, things start to be more clearer and more focused. Maybe it is because we are so similar that sometimes we dont see eye to eye on a lot of things.
Well,nothing change how i feel about her. Maybe we just need some time to adjust ... thanks anyway
I disagree on the first time, im living proof of such experience. But anyway, Good luck adjusting. if your feelings for each other r strong enough to stand all trials and errors of timely journey, then it has to be worth something. right?
Different people have different experiences. Anyway, appreciate ur views very much.
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